Our Backstory and USCIS Immigration Tips for Chinese Citizens


Some of you may be curious about some of the details of how JiaYou and I met, our life in Shanghai, and how we navigated the USCIS immigration process. So here are some highlights and some tips!

Chinese immigrant love story
My search for a water dispenser bottle led to true love

How We First Met

JiaYou and I met quite randomly. I had just finished at a private Mandarin language school near People’s Square and was looking for a new apartment in the Xujiahui area of Shanghai before starting my job as a project manager at a China markets research firm.

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Driving (and being a Pedestrian) in New York vs Shanghai – Part 1

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One of the more subtle differences between New York and Shanghai (which can be generalized to Western and Asian societies overall) is the relationship between motorists and pedestrians.

AddingOil’s perils as a pedestrian – to be fair, this is just illustrative as this photo actually wasn’t taken in China!

In the U.S., pedestrians are treated as the equivalent of an endangered species. They are to be protected at all costs (admittedly, this is probably related to being a highly litigious society), and at times coddled (which is very much the case on the West Coast). In fact, in many East Coast cities, such as NY and Boston, pedestrians can even have an arrogant demeanor, assuming right of way without regard to their physical safely. If you honk at them when they are not walking with the light, they’ll actually glare at you and act indignant!

In China, in sharp contrast, pedestrians are simply the lowest level in the food chain (i.e., plankton). Continue reading “Driving (and being a Pedestrian) in New York vs Shanghai – Part 1”

Chinese National Holidays: Embracing Ambivalence?

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Happy Chinese New Year! (or actually, Happy Spring Festival, which is the more precise English translation of 春节快乐!)

This is more so a Flashback post, as we didn’t do much authentic Chinese celebration here in the U.S. other than making dumplings and giving the red envelopes (or hongbao) with money to my nephews and niece. Hopefully next year JiaYou can comment on what CNY is like in NYC’s Chinatown! Continue reading “Chinese National Holidays: Embracing Ambivalence?”